tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15298826.post113398182154578479..comments2016-05-11T16:03:19.828-04:00Comments on :: good enough ::: feeling blueUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15298826.post-1134157150186470702005-12-09T14:39:00.000-05:002005-12-09T14:39:00.000-05:00thank you everyone for your support. i know it's s...thank you everyone for your support. i know it's something many many mothers go through, and it means so much to me to know that i have this network of support and understanding.<BR/><BR/>i'm just taking each day as it comes; some days are clearly better than others. but i know i'll get through this. and i just have to remember that i'm usually okay with a messy house -- and i should be okay with a messy house now of all times, when i actually don't have the time or energy to take care of it!<BR/><BR/>thanks again everyone! i should be back to blogging next week.yucareehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03571955226906015844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15298826.post-1134152494666548432005-12-09T13:21:00.000-05:002005-12-09T13:21:00.000-05:00Yuki - good luck to cheer up soon! I don't know w...Yuki - good luck to cheer up soon! I don't know what to say, but I certainly wouldn't worry about housework too much - take the siegelcritz method and eat take-out off of paper plates - does wonders for the diswashing. And I'm with new teach that there are worse things than reading comic books - whatever makes you feel good (or just escape the everyday realities of babies!).Hobokenerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14938758835069468718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15298826.post-1134125748908319672005-12-09T05:55:00.000-05:002005-12-09T05:55:00.000-05:00awwww...hope things start looking up soon.awwww...hope things start looking up soon.marygracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08271343823695866573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15298826.post-1134053586302968212005-12-08T09:53:00.000-05:002005-12-08T09:53:00.000-05:00Oh Yucaree,I'm so sorry you're feeling blue. I re...Oh Yucaree,<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry you're feeling blue. I remember that feeling. I had it with Simon. But I didn't with Charlotte. Which just confirms that it's hormonal or something, rather than some, like, character flaw.<BR/><BR/>I also understand not feeling able to communicate your feelings to Jordan. I hope you let him read this entry, because I think you do a darn good job of laying out the essential elements of what's going on with you.<BR/><BR/>I remember not being able to take a shower or put my clothes on some days until 5 p.m. I remember escaping onto the internet. I can't exactly remember how long this overwhelmed and exhausted bluesdom lasted, oddly, but Andy just recently told me that during that period he was really REALLY worried about me, and wondered if I should be medicated or something, but he was too careful of upsetting me and confused about how to act that he never told me about his worry. So he stressed in silence about it. I never knew at the time how much he wanted to help, and to do the right thing. I'm sure Jordan probably feels something close to this. That's why I suggest you let him read what you wrote here. <BR/><BR/>I wish I lived down the street, and could come drop by with Christmas cookies, and something soothing to drink, minus the caffeine. <BR/><BR/>You're wonderful. Housekeeping doesn't matter a speck in the scheme of everything, and you will be okay.<BR/><BR/>p.s. comic books rulegrudge girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15804147900832478548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15298826.post-1134005966040654812005-12-07T20:39:00.000-05:002005-12-07T20:39:00.000-05:00I'm with you on this. I'm not feeling too great e...I'm with you on this. I'm not feeling too great either - more overwhelmed than down, but they go together. I'm not even trying to do housework; it seems like all i can do to get her fed and changed. In fact, I'm impressed you're able to read comic books. Hey, there are worse vices. Let's talk.New Teachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11762754683762556067noreply@blogger.com