11.28.2013

Day 28 :: Thankful for ...


... Thanksgiving and Hanukkah falling on the same day, and that we got to spend it with Rupert's family. Happy Thanksgivukkah!

11.27.2013

Day 27 :: Thankful for ...


... arriving safely at our destination after driving through some snow in the dark. (This picture was taken during the nice flurrying snow; we ran into some "can't really see where we're going" snow later in the drive.)

11.26.2013

Day 26 :: Thankful for ...


... the mild craziness of getting ready for Thanksgivukkah. It means we have family to celebrate with and much to be thankful for. 

11.25.2013

Day 25 :: Thankful for ...


... a little disposable income so I can occasionally treat myself to lunch (or a new shirt, or a book, or stationery).

11.22.2013

Day 22 :: Thankful for ...

... my children's good health. I took them to their first check-up here and everything's A-OK. And we liked their new pediatrician, a youngish guy (a first for us and probably a good thing for Ian).

11.21.2013

Day 21 :: Thankful for ...


... a few quiet moments staring outside at the birds and squirrels fattening up for the winter. 

11.20.2013

Day 20 :: Thankful for ...


... libraries. (Left: Ian's middle school library where I volunteer; Right: my local public library's children's graphic novels/comics section)

11.19.2013

Day 19 :: Thankful for ...


... my kind & loving/lovable husband, Rupert. (And, just to be clear, his real name isn't Rupert. It's kind of a long-standing joke that stuck on the blog.) We have a special thing going, mostly because he is extremely tolerant of me. (This photo was taken at Thanksgiving; we really need to take more pictures of just the two of us.)

11.17.2013

Day 17 :: Thankful for ...


... family game nights. And an understanding family who lets me just be a spectator. ;)

(They're playing Takenoko, if you're wondering.)

11.16.2013

Day 16 :: Thankful for ...


... former colleagues who are visiting DC and invited me to join them on a night tour of the monuments.

11.15.2013

Day 15 :: Thankful for ...


... the children's literature community. I attended my second Capitol Choices meeting today and, like last time, it reinforced the importance of the work these people do. On a personal level, I've been encouraged and buoyed by people involved in children's literature who I've met online and in person. 

11.14.2013

Day 14 :: Thankful for ...


... supportive friends around the country. In my time of emotional need, my friends never fail to come through for me. Whether it's a virtual hug through Facebook, a phone call, or a handwritten letter, my friends always show me that they've got my back. 

11.13.2013

Day 13 :: Thankful for ...


... my son. Happy 13th birthday, Ian! You are a great kid and you've certainly made being your parents a pretty easy job.

(Guess what his favorite food is!)

11.11.2013

Day 11 :: Thankful for ...


... time spent in the kitchen with my parents, learning how to make food that's familiar to my taste buds, and passing that knowledge/skill down to Maya. 

And I would be remiss if I didn't mention on Veterans Day how thankful I am for our veterans and their families. 

11.10.2013

Day 10 :: Thankful for ...


... family dinners. 

We were blessed when we lived in Los Angeles: dinners with both of our extended families were a regular part of life. Having loud, boisterous meals, talking and laughing (and sometimes arguing), sharing experiences across generations ... it's an amazing part of family life that I now miss terribly.

Since my parents got here, a lot of our activities have revolved around food, and spending time together like that has been special in an incredibly routine kind of way. Like things are back to "normal." Don't get me wrong -- I love my nuclear family more than anything -- but when it comes to food, the more the merrier!

11.09.2013

Day 9 :: Thankful for ...


... my parents visiting us, and ...


... for all the Japanese food my mom brought us!

11.08.2013

Day 8 :: Thankful for ...


... my sisters who are great aunties. My big sis sent Maya some animal cake pops for her birthday.

11.07.2013

Day 7 :: Thankful for ...


... county services. Today is one of two free leaf collection days.

11.06.2013

Day 6 :: Thankful for


... having skills that are useful to someone else (and are appreciated). Today I covered books for the middle school library, and the library staff is impressed enough to save a lot of the covering for me to do.

(This book, Counting by 7s, is supposed to be quite good -- put it on your to-read list.)

11.05.2013

Day 5 :: Thankful for ...


... friends. My high school friend S was in DC for work so we made plans to hang out. She works for a movie studio and travels around the country coordinating and setting up screenings. This was actually her first time in DC so I gave her a very brief tour of the Mall between lunch and heading back to Georgetown for the evening's screenings (which I got to attend).

11.04.2013

Day 4 :: Thankful for ...


... my daughter. Happy birthday, Maya! The last eight years have been nothing short of amazing, challenging, and life-changing. We love you!

11.03.2013

Day 3 :: Thankful for ...


... technology. FaceTiming with Grandma in L.A. so she can watch Maya open the birthday presents she sent. 

11.01.2013

Day 1 :: Thankful for ...


... my in-laws. Grandpa made a surprise visit for Maya's birthday!

10.18.2013

Life lessons from reality TV

I've kind of had a rough week. I'll probably blog about that later, but basically, as a result, I'm mopy. And when I'm mopy I tend to indulge in a little escapism. Sometimes I read. Sometimes I sleep a lot. And sometimes I watch marathon episodes of TV shows on Netflix.

As I was engrossed in yet another stretch of TV-watching, I realized I actually get some simple counseling from the shows I watch:

Hoarding: Buried Alive
  • Don't dwell on the past --> enjoy the "now" with the people in your life.
  • Don't let "stuff" tether you down, and never let your loved ones think that your stuff is more important to you than they are.
What Not to Wear
  • How you present yourself to the world can make a positive impression on others ... and if you look good, you often feel good.
  • Be classy!
Anthony Bourdain: A Cook's Tour (this one I'm watching on Amazon Prime)
  • The world is a large -- and sometimes mysterious -- place. You're just a small part of that large world. Look for the mysterious, new, and different in the world and let it impact you in a positive way.
  • People live differently around the world, but most likely find joy in the same things you do.
Comic Book Men
  • Never lose your passion!
  • Never be ashamed of what you love.
Mythbusters
  • Stay curious.
  • Learn from your mistakes, and move forward.

As for comedies, I'm enjoying watching How I Met Your Mother, mostly because I watch it with Ian. We spend 20-40 minutes after school watching it together until Maya comes home. We don't talk or discuss anything; we just watch a silly TV show that probably has some inappropriate innuendos and we laugh together. Nothing better than that!